Hi there & Welcome,
My name is Christoph. At the end of 2017 I turned 50 years old. Life has been a journey and just recently (11/2019) I came to the realization that I am not happy. I actually think I have been miserable for way too long and that it was time to make a change.
My marriage has turned into something that I feel is more like two people living together as roommate. There was no intimacy nor did we really seem to care anymore for each other. Our marriage has hit its expiration date.
A lot of soul searching went into this and while it incredibly hurts, I decided to separate from my wife of many years. I rather do this now before things turn bad – especially as we have a 14 year-old son. I have asked for a divorce and we are currently going through this process – ideally using a mediator to exit gracefully from our time together.
This website – will change its purpose accordingly. Separating and divorcing will affect my financial situation a lot and I will describe my financials and future life-story here. Who knows what it will turn into, but please come along.